The graphite-impregnated (typically black in color) ones don't really squeak. And I concur, poly all around makes for a too stiff and unfavorable driving experience. But there ARE a few places where the benefits of poly are high, and the consequences low.
Poly in three places adds some good handling, with minimal downside:
+ Upper Control Arm Bushings
+ Front Sway Bar Frame Bushings
+ Front Sway Bar End Link Bushings
I did poly all around on the first (my car) e-body front-end rebuild using poly. It was indeed too stiff, and bumpy. The KYB shocks (later replaced with Monroe) didn't help. It was pretty cool, at first, but I grew weary of the stiffness.
On a second car, (a client b-body) we went with just the three places listed above, this seemed the magic combo.
On a third example, a 318 convertible car, we likewise did just the three ploy locations listed, and again, it felt really good with no discomfort.
In all the examples, the whole front end was rebuilt with Moog parts, ball joints, tie rod ends, etc.