Thank god I found it. There is a small hole in between two of the screw holes on the column that it goes to. If it is upside down it will be to the bottom right. You have to put the end on the column first then hold it while you slide on the collar, don't let go it will fall out. Then grab with other hand and pull it over to the collar small stud sticking up. Where it is connect in the pic above. I have a manuel and watched the video's so I didn't think I need a bunch of pics like what was recommended. Would have helped is all I am saying. So I hope to post with a completed picture.