what I have done is to mount the relays near the start relay , the headlight wiring goes right past it & you have access to to 12V terminal on the start relay but by extending the wires 18 " or so you can hide them in front of the rad wall under the fender . You can cut into the headlight wires anywhere along their path so anywhere between the firewall & left headlights, the ground for the relays can attach to the battery ground on the rad wall right in front of the battery , this is also where the headlights are grounded .
You want to cut the red & purple headlight wires & use the dash side from the switch to trigger the relay on either 85 or 86 terminal & ground the other side terminal . then run a fuseable link from the start relay to the 87 terminal & connect the headlight side of the factory wiring to the 30 terminal . You will need two relays , one for low & one for high beam .
The dimmer switch is bolted to the floor under the carpet near your left foot , they often corrode & jam up , but with the relays there will be no load on the switch anymore .